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One of the Most Powerful Questions
One of the most powerful questions I ask my clients is, “What are you making this mean?” The reason it's so powerful is that it forces your brain to stop and realize it's an interpretation your brain is coming up with, usually around a situation that's upsetting you.
How to change someone to do what you want them to do
If I knew how to change someone to do something I wanted them to do, I would sell that and make billions of dollars. More often than not, one of my clients presents a problem that involves someone else’s behavior.
Meet the Author
Melanie Shmois, LISW-S, is a licensed therapist and multi-certified coach working with high-achievers who've built real success on the outside and want the same strength on the inside. As founder of Mind Your Strength Coaching, she helps driven professionals close the gap between performance and fulfillment, with the same precision they'd expect from any high-level advisor.