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How to stop obsessing
A reader asked me to talk about how to “slow down obsessive thoughts in the moment” that had him spinning and up all night in worry. I figure this is a relevant concern, so I wanted to share my answer with all of you.
Inspiration from (The Dawn Wall & Free Solo)
When setting an impossible goal, whether that’s to make 1 million dollars in your business, to lose 50 pounds, or climb El Capitan, you must be willing to fail your way there. You are not going to fail in the taking of the action, but you might fail in the result you want to create.
Trying on new beliefs
I was recently asked to give a talk to a group of young girls on happiness. Towards the end of the talk, the organizer asked me to teach them something that I wished I would have known when I was a teenager. The one thing I taught them was that you can believe whatever you want to believe about yourself.
Overcoming FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)
Have you recently been scrolling through your Facebook or Instagram feed and find yourself feeling a twinge or more of jealousy as you come across your 4thfriend who is vacationing in the Caribbean while you are at home with the kids for the third snow day?
How to change someone to do what you want them to do
If I knew how to change someone to do something I wanted them to do, I would sell that and make billions of dollars. More often than not, one of my clients presents a problem that involves someone else’s behavior.
Meet the Author!
Melanie Shmois, LISW-S, is a licensed therapist and certified life coach for high-achieving individuals who crave inner joy as much as outer success. As the founder of Mind Your Strength Coaching and creator of The Joy Revolution, Melanie helps driven professionals balance their masculine and feminine energies so they can experience fulfillment, emotional freedom, and lasting happiness.