Blog
Notes
Categories
- Career Coaching 3
- Cognitive Psychology 137
- Emotional Mastery 219
- Energetics 2
- For Athletes 8
- Fullfillment 5
- Goal Setting 6
- High Achievers 1
- High Performers 1
- Holiday Stress 1
- Intuition 34
- Journal 13
- Masculine & Feminine Energy 2
- People Pleasing 1
- Personal Growth 43
- Professional Development 9
- Self-Care 1
- Spirituality 33
- Stress Reduction 1
- Thought Work 166
- Weight Loss 41
- Women in Business 3
- Work-Life Balance 20
4 acts of fierce self-love
I think many people assume that self-love is all warm and cuddly filled with bubble baths and cheesy affirmations. When I work with clients, we really try to foster what I call “fierce self-love”.
Fear is outdated
For millions of years, fear was arguably our most important emotion. Our survival depended on it. When faced with a life -threatening danger like a saber-toothed tiger, or grizzly bear, our brain triggered this powerful emotion in the form of our fight or flight response to protect us.
Are you interested or committed?
I recently stumbled on this quote by Ken Blanchard who says,“There’s a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when it’s convenient. When you’re committed to something you accept no excuses-only results.”
An urge jar to the rescue!
In a previous blog I talked about how vital it is to learn how to allow an urge vs. resisting it, or worse yet giving into an undesired behavior.
How not to give in!
One of the most transformative tools I teach my clients is how to allow an urge. Whenever we want to stop doing something, whether that is to stop overdrinking, stop over eating, stop checking phones for messages, stop cleaning, stop texting that ex-boyfriend, then it is vital to master this skill.
Meet the Author!
Melanie Shmois, LISW-S, is a licensed therapist and multi-certified coach working with high-achievers who've built real success on the outside and want the same strength on the inside. As founder of Mind Your Strength Coaching, she helps driven professionals close the gap between performance and fulfillment, with the same precision they'd expect from any high-level advisor.